Amid growing public questions about family relationships and religious guidance, Egypt’s Fatwa Secretariat offered important clarifications regarding the sin of disobeying parents, emphasizing that it is one of the gravest major sins and that consequences often reflect one’s behavior toward their parents.

Details of the Case Presented
A woman sought religious advice, explaining that her brother returned from abroad with a changed attitude and began mistreating their mother. She asked about the ruling on such behavior and the consequences associated with it, while requesting prayers for his guidance.

Ruling on Disobeying Parents
Dr. Ali Fakhr, Secretary of Fatwa at Egypt’s Dar Al-Iftaa, stated during a TV appearance that disrespecting parents is a grave major sin. He added that such conduct contradicts natural human instinct, which encourages compassion, gratitude, and kindness toward one’s parents.

A Prayer for the Young Man
Dr. Fakhr began his response with a prayer, saying:
“May God guide him, improve his state, enlighten his heart, and make him dutiful to his mother.”

The Status of Parents in Islam
He emphasized the great sacrifices parents make in raising their children, noting that remembering these efforts should inspire kindness and appreciation in return.

Direct and Indirect Forms of Disobedience
He referenced the Prophet Muhammad’s saying:
“One of the greatest sins is for a man to insult his parents,”
explaining that disobedience may occur through direct harm or indirect behavior that causes distress—both considered serious sins.

Consequences Reflect the Action
Dr. Fakhr warned that those who mistreat their parents may one day face similar treatment from their own children, stressing that punishment often mirrors one’s actions.